Hey guys, I'm thinking of joining the RAF as a Regiment Gunner.
This idea has not been met with open arms by my partner, as she seems concerned and worried by the idea.
Some information about us; We have been together for about 7 years now and engaged for over a year, we have two young children, aged 3 and 1. We also currently live in a flat together, close to my parents and about an hour or so from her parents. The first few years of our relationship was a distant relationship with us both living at our parents and seeing each other at weekends etc, this changed a few months after my first child was born. Neither of us currently drive, and we are planning to get married around the end of the year. Also, we're both fairly young, in our early 20's.
Her main concerns are probably quite common to most partners, with concerns about not seeing me regularly and my children missing me.
She doesn't appear to want to move to an SFA, because this will be even further away from her and my parents, who we normally see at the weekends in our current situation (we currently live in South East Kent).
I'm unsure of how to approach the situation, this is something I want to do, and I do believe down the line this would be a good decision for us as a family, but from her response I am beginning to feel selfish.
Any advice anybody can give?
This idea has not been met with open arms by my partner, as she seems concerned and worried by the idea.
Some information about us; We have been together for about 7 years now and engaged for over a year, we have two young children, aged 3 and 1. We also currently live in a flat together, close to my parents and about an hour or so from her parents. The first few years of our relationship was a distant relationship with us both living at our parents and seeing each other at weekends etc, this changed a few months after my first child was born. Neither of us currently drive, and we are planning to get married around the end of the year. Also, we're both fairly young, in our early 20's.
Her main concerns are probably quite common to most partners, with concerns about not seeing me regularly and my children missing me.
She doesn't appear to want to move to an SFA, because this will be even further away from her and my parents, who we normally see at the weekends in our current situation (we currently live in South East Kent).
I'm unsure of how to approach the situation, this is something I want to do, and I do believe down the line this would be a good decision for us as a family, but from her response I am beginning to feel selfish.
Any advice anybody can give?