Dress Regs is one of those things that get flaunted by everyone but is generally ignored as long as you look smart. How many of you have the crease in your shirt sleeves lined up with the middle of the epaulette or with the stitching at the bottom? Who still has the plastic lining in their beret? Maybe it's time for certain aspects of dress regs to be modernised.
Well said!
Dress regs, and many other regs, get flaunted all the time, and people seem OK with it , as long as you look smart and don’t do anything stupid!.
I always adopted an attitude of I know what the regs are, and know what the penalty is if I get caught – from there you make a choice as to whether to blindly obey the regs – or bend them a little (the bit about not doing anything stupid). However, The key to it is, if you get picked up when bending / flaunting the regs – you don’t get to winge about it!.
For example, Not all that long ago, it was charge if you were caught in the wraf block – we all knew it, and most of us went in anyway. I was lucky and never got caught, but know many people who did – all of whom took the fine / jankers on the chin and laughed it off afterwards
I remember getting caught improperly dressed at Valley by the scary wraf SWO that was there in the mid 80’s. I got shouted at for about 5 minutes – which I took as I knew I was in the wrong, and when I was asked if I has anything to say for myself just said ‘sorry ma’am – won’t happen again’ and was send on my way. (Scary SWO was actually a decent person, just a stickler for certain rules – I actually ran into her years later and she remembered the incident, and mentioned the only reason I didn’t get charged was I took the blocking and didn’t offer excuses or whine about it – had I done either a charge was coming!).
I also remember being in a small ops room where the officers wore those blue name tag things on their jumpers – they modifies theirs from surname only to full name, and job role. So the assistants went through a phase of taking the **** with some we made as well – mine had something to the effect of “ The Pom – tea boy” on it from memory). The boss went with it or a while – then said jokes over, time to stop wearing them – so we did, no winging, just stopped wearing them.
I also got charged 3 times along the way, one admonished, one 7 days point, and one not guilty – and there were many, many more times I should have been charged for flouting regs but wasn’t. never once did I complain the rules were wrong
Getting back to the point of can you wear a cross or not – dress regs are clear – no you can’t.
Will anything happen in 99% of cases if you wear a small, discrete, cross under your uniform – probably not. Especially if taken off without a winge if pulled up on it.
Regs do change over time - not as a result of complaining how unfair it is if you get caught - but by rational suggestions up the chain of command - eg when the AOC's laccy's come to do a road show and hear opinions.