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Relationships (Raf Regt and RAF in general)

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Also, what hasn't been considered so far is children. I've been married for 18 years and have two teenagers with my eldest being 15 in June. Since my eldest has been around I've spent over 4 years away from home, thats a big pill to swallow mate and something you can't get back.

Engineers on my Sqn spend 4-6 months away a year so god knows what the Regiment Squadrons are doing.

Can any Regiment lads that are on a Squadron shine a light on this?

Another thing is that your girlfriend has to be a of strong character to avoid being a pain in the ass when your away. I've seen lads calling home everyday because their girlfriends are so lost without them. Ive also seen the same girlfriends say they will bin their fellas if they don't call them everyday too. This puts an amazing amount of stress in the individual which they can do without as they need to be focused and switched on constantly. What your girlfriend has to do is get on with their life when your away and leave it up to contact her when you're away as you will not be able to call home when you want to due to comms being down (minimise) and other unforeseen things happening.

Excellent point about kids Wobbly. Thankfully I am around to see with my Grandkids what I missed with my own lads. I wouldn't have missed my time in the RAF but you certainly can miss a big chunk of your kids growing up.
 
It depends on the outlook to what is important, how strong the relationship and what each of you wants from the relationship.

I've had a long distance relationship for about two years, and it's worked very well. The distance may not be quite as far in miles now, gone from 415 miles to 250 miles, give or take a couple. But that move has meant he's away much more often, and about to head out to the sand in a few weeks time for several months. The way I view it is that he's the one who important in this, he's the one who has to go away, he's the one who has to face god knows what sh1t, so he's not going to get sh1t on home turf. We make time for each other, and that time is always well spent and quality time. Before he goes away I expect him to spend as much time as possible doing what he wants, when he gets back I expect the same. Yes that does mean going down the pub, being with his mates, kicking ar5e at darts and drinking the brewery dry, at times I help with that. I know when he's out there that contact may not be often from him, sometimes even a blank e-mail shows me he's okay, but he gets frequent parcels and contact from me, it's always good to get mail.

So like I say, it can work but it does depend on how you both see it.
 
Well dont finish with her yet. What happens if you dont pass Basic's? Alot of people dont!! Would she have you back? If i was you id wait till you have compleated RTSB. Then you do know what options the 2 of you have.

If you have biffed her off. I think uve been a fool, because you aint a Gunner yet. Anything could happen,

Anyways good luck, take note of what the cpl's say and do!
 
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