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gemarriott
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Also, what hasn't been considered so far is children. I've been married for 18 years and have two teenagers with my eldest being 15 in June. Since my eldest has been around I've spent over 4 years away from home, thats a big pill to swallow mate and something you can't get back.
Engineers on my Sqn spend 4-6 months away a year so god knows what the Regiment Squadrons are doing.
Can any Regiment lads that are on a Squadron shine a light on this?
Another thing is that your girlfriend has to be a of strong character to avoid being a pain in the ass when your away. I've seen lads calling home everyday because their girlfriends are so lost without them. Ive also seen the same girlfriends say they will bin their fellas if they don't call them everyday too. This puts an amazing amount of stress in the individual which they can do without as they need to be focused and switched on constantly. What your girlfriend has to do is get on with their life when your away and leave it up to contact her when you're away as you will not be able to call home when you want to due to comms being down (minimise) and other unforeseen things happening.
Excellent point about kids Wobbly. Thankfully I am around to see with my Grandkids what I missed with my own lads. I wouldn't have missed my time in the RAF but you certainly can miss a big chunk of your kids growing up.