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Who is in the wrong??

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Bit long winded but here goes.....
October last year the soon to be ex Mrs Elnino suggested getting back together!!
Two weeks ago after still getting no further, I have started seeing another woman!
Mrs E found some emails i had sent new woman and blew a fooking fuse saying i am a cnut and barsteward etc.... so my question is this, was she right or do fellow goaters think i gave her enough time??
 
How long after you split up did you get with this new woman?
 
People don't change so if you got to the point where a split was on the cards a, "retry", only puts off the inevitable.

IMHO. (As with most people I can advise on other relationships but my own are usually a car crash. :PDT_Xtremez_42:)
 
elnino said:
Bit long winded but here goes.....
October last year the soon to be ex Mrs Elnino suggested getting back together!!
Two weeks ago after still getting no further, I have started seeing another woman!
Mrs E found some emails i had sent new woman and blew a fooking fuse saying i am a cnut and barsteward etc.... so my question is this, was she right or do fellow goaters think i gave her enough time??
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October to March is a fair amount of time to think that if the reconciliation hasn't happened, it's probably not going to.

Didn't "Friends" cover this?: "We were on a break!"....

Sounds like you're having a sh!t time of it though. Hope things smooth out soon.
 
I can say that now on my second "re-try" things arent really any different.

Nothing was bad in the first place, but we were in a rut, and still in it really.

I would say in you're situation though, if she suggested getting back together, but nothing ever came of it, then you were right to be carrying on with sorting out another kitchen worker, but if you got back together, and you were still emailling the new lady, then thats a bit naughty.
 
First thing I would do is sort out the security on my PC. Then send her the divorce papers and get on with it. The longer it drags on, the more painfull it gets.
I was lucky. I went to work saturday morning and when I came home she was gone. Never saw her again, thank fcuk.
 
God no thats enough time jesus I mean it wasnt like it was a few weeks, she is in the wrong, if she wanted to work things out shes had more than enough time, you did the right thing moving on!!!
 
lisab said:
God no thats enough time jesus I mean it wasnt like it was a few weeks, she is in the wrong, if she wanted to work things out shes had more than enough time, you did the right thing moving on!!!
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I also think she might be cheesed off that you found someone and she hasn't. If it was the other way round it would be a different matter and you would be the unreasonable one.

Gotta love chicks and their double standards! :PDT_Xtremez_14:
 
Although I can see your point of view, that from your standpoint, nothing had moved on and you weren't getting any closer together, as far as your wife was concerned you two were still making a go of it. So to go behind her back and start emailing another woman with the view of starting a new relationship is a bit sh*tty to be honest. Why weren't you honest with your ex wife and tell her that it wasn't working out before getting to know someone else? Too afraid of being on your own?
 
If you don't mind me asking - why did you split in the first place? Was another woman involved? Because if that's the case, her jealousy and frustration are more understandable.

If the original split was always your idea, not hers, it'd explain why she had more faith in you getting back together.

Service relationships are hard at the best of times, good luck with yours mate.:PDT_Xtremez_34:
 
Oberon305 said:
If you don't mind me asking - why did you split in the first place? Was another woman involved? Because if that's the case, her jealousy and frustration are more understandable.

If the original split was always your idea, not hers, it'd explain why she had more faith in you getting back together.

Service relationships are hard at the best of times, good luck with yours mate.:PDT_Xtremez_34:
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Umm she porked a mate from work was the origional reason for the split...not my doing.
 
elnino said:
Umm she porked a mate from work was the origional reason for the split...not my doing.
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Well then I can see why you're so pee'd off about it all.:S

Who does she think she is?!?!?!?!?

Well within rights to do what the feck you want i think.
 
Oberon305 said:
Well then I can see why you're so pee'd off about it all.:S

Who does she think she is?!?!?!?!?

Well within rights to do what the feck you want i think.
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Totally agree.........Bin Her...........enjoy your new life...........:PDT_Xtremez_30:
 
elnino said:
Umm she porked a mate from work was the origional reason for the split...not my doing.
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Well I was about to say that she'd bring up the 'Affair' (because if you are still married your relationship with the new woman would legally be an affair!) during any legal proceeding (i.e. Divorce), but after reading that she'd done it first leads me to think...

Bin her off,:PDT_Xtremez_32:

get on with your new life:PDT_Xtremez_19:

and best of luck mate!:PDT_Xtremez_30:

HTB

PS, do you know anyone that's building a patio:PDT_Xtremez_06:
 
I'd agree with the others and say that its time to show her the door and move.....

Also, any chance I can have her phone/email details? I'm sure she'd like a sympathetic shoulder/ear/stiffy to rely on at this difficult time. And i might get a rebound sh@g into the bargain.....


Just a thought.


I'll get me coat.
 
Harry B'Stard said:
Well I was about to say that she'd bring up the 'Affair' (because if you are still married your relationship with the new woman would legally be an affair!) during any legal proceeding (i.e. Divorce), but after reading that she'd done it first leads me to think...

Bin her off,:PDT_Xtremez_32:

get on with your new life:PDT_Xtremez_19:

and best of luck mate!:PDT_Xtremez_30:

HTB



PS, do you know anyone that's building a patio:PDT_Xtremez_06:
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Funnily enough, new girls needs re-laying!!!!
 
pie sandwich said:
I trust you banged the fcuk out of the bloke for porking your wife:PDT_Xtremez_14:
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Oh he was taken care of no worries there, although nowadays the thick cnut still can't work out why I wont be his mate anymore!!!!!!!
 
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