Indeed.
It always makes me laugh when people cry "I only get to see my family for 1 day of quality time before I go"; as if the last X amount of years have been sh1t time.
see my post above !!
Indeed.
It always makes me laugh when people cry "I only get to see my family for 1 day of quality time before I go"; as if the last X amount of years have been sh1t time.
So it's better to dik someone who has the relevant q's to go at a months notice away from their families rather than you??? You've had months to spend quality time with yours as you've known for months that you were going.
In his defence Renton has had his location, dates, Q requirements changed so often he's lucky he knows where he's going, when and what he needs.
I think he's just sick of being fecked about over this det which has been going on for about the last 6 months. There just seems to a severe lack of sense or planning by his trade desk and i don't really blame him for being slightly miffed with it all.
Even if he is a plumber!DT_Xtremez_32:
ok lets get the story straight.
this is how it goes ......
last august i phoned my drafter to "volunteer" to do an ooa to afghan(a specific op which i cant name for sec reasons)
drafter said brill will get you sorted straight away.
jpa assignment comes through for khandahar in november last year with x amount of courses to do.
i complete all courses and about a month before im due to go another assignment order pops up for Fi in march with another load of courses to do!
start courses in november last year(deods)and then try and sort out courses for this year.
cue another assignment on jpa and date put back to july this year(still is)
so start trying to book courses for this and then get told what i first said in my first post.
so today ive managd to sort dates for all courses and between now and when i go in july i will have about 4 weeks(maybe 5 at a push) with my family before i go.
im not whinging , far from it in fact i dont mind going and am quite looking forward to going down south.
its the fact my ooa has changed so much and then when trying to sort my courses out i get told to sit on my hands for a bit whilst they cant decide what to do im left with a ****ty situation which is not my fault at all.
never mentioned dicking someone else , what i said was that i find it hard to believe that im the only one out of x amount of sac armourers with the relevant q's which is what ive been told is the reason for all this!!
hope that helps clear it up a bit!!
cheers
renton
thanks for seeing my side of it!!
never mentioned dicking someone else , what i said was that i find it hard to believe that im the only one out of x amount of sac armourers with the relevant q's which is what ive been told is the reason for all this!!
So just how would you describe the action of sending someone in your place at less notice than you received, or leaving some poor dumb sap in-theatre until you feel you're ready to go? DT_Xtremez_41:
So just how would you describe the action of sending someone in your place at less notice than you received, or leaving some poor dumb sap in-theatre until you feel you're ready to go? DT_Xtremez_41:
the excuse i was given is that im most qualified, yet ive got to fit in 5 course before i can go???
what i said is im sure there are other sac that have the q's already!!
Suck it up princess!
Course, you could "man up" (whatever the hell that is), and continue to tacitly hide the culpable administrative and managerial incompetence displayed by your desk and that led you to where you are at present, compromising not only your own well-being but that of your family. In this instance, and has been stated, it has happened before and WILL happen again.
The alternative may be to "man up" and go as planned, but make damned sure that it goes in writing and gets a response from someone who actually has the gonads to accept responsibility for screwing, quite unnecessarily, with your family.
I rather suspect though that it will receive the very big broom and very well handled rug treatement by your desk if you just call them - careers being rather precious and all right now.
Bottom line - all this "manning up" is all very brave - but it's your family they are screwing with, not you. So i guess it depends upon who you respect more - tough call.
Course, you could "man up" (whatever the hell that is), and continue to tacitly hide the culpable administrative and managerial incompetence displayed by your desk and that led you to where you are at present, compromising not only your own well-being but that of your family. In this instance, and has been stated, it has happened before and WILL happen again.
The alternative may be to "man up" and go as planned, but make damned sure that it goes in writing and gets a response from someone who actually has the gonads to accept responsibility for screwing, quite unnecessarily, with your family.
I rather suspect though that it will receive the very big broom and very well handled rug treatement by your desk if you just call them - careers being rather precious and all right now.
Bottom line - all this "manning up" is all very brave - but it's your family they are screwing with, not you. So i guess it depends upon who you respect more - tough call.
Like I said previously....it's an admin cluster......but would rents ever get a straight, honest answer or even an apology for the messing-about that he's received? I doubt it.